Before you apply,
read this.

We hold beauty, enthusiasm, and discretion in equal measure.

• Age: 21+ only.
• Confidentiality: All submissions are kept strictly private.
• Honesty: Full transparency is non‑negotiable.

• Approved members must present a valid photo ID at their first event — no exceptions. This guarantees everyone's safety and confirms your identity.
• Not every applicant will be invited. (If that stings, this community may not be the right fit.)
• We have a zero-tolerance policy for consent violations or judgment. You will be asked to leave if you violate.

• Consent first, always: Nothing is expected of anyone. Ask first, respect "no," and stop immediately if consent changes.
• Respect & discretion: Be kind, honor names/pronouns, and never "out" anyone or discuss who attended outside the event.
• No phones / no recording: No photos, video, or audio. Phones stay put away unless the host approves for an emergency.
• Give people space: Watch from a distance, keep play areas quiet, and move conversations to the social area.
• Follow staff/monitors: If a host/monitor asks you to pause, move, or stop — comply right away.
• Keep it clean: Use towels where required and clean any equipment after use.
• BYOB responsibly: Don't overdo it — anyone who appears intoxicated may be refused service or asked to leave.
• No illegal items: No drugs, no weapons.